I felt it was time for another round-up chat, sharing some of the simple pleasures I’ve been enjoying lately. I thought it would be fun to turn this into a semi-regular feature (akin to my book round up posts, which I had originally planned to be monthly, but I think more realistically will be every other month or so). I’ve been thinking more and more lately about ways to slow down the rhythm of my days; to appreciate each moment and take joy in small things.
M A K I N G A F L O R A L C R O W N
My lovely friend Talitha invited me along to a floral wreath making workshop with the Flower Appreciation Society, as part of an airbnb ‘London experience.’ We all gathered for tea at the Hackney City Farm cafe before choosing some pretty blooms at Columbia Road Flower Market, and then jumped in a taxi to the flower studio to learn how to make our crowns.
I can’t imagine it will come as a shock to anyone that I’m rather partial to flowers. They’re a simple pleasure that never fail to make me happy, and I love having flowers in the home, as well as seeing them growing wild in the countryside or planted in parks and the grounds of beautiful stately homes.
Much as I appreciate everything floral, however, I hadn’t ever done a floristry workshop before, so I was very excited to learn how to make a headpiece. A florist once told me that flowers are often used in therapy, to help patients feeling anxious or depressed, but I was still surprised by the calming influence I felt as I bent my head over my crown. Everyone was very concentrated on the task at hand: carefully selecting each flower head to use and delicately taping the stems to wire. We munched chocolate and ginger biscuits, sipped tea and chatted sporadically, delighting in the abundance of gorgeous bouquets before us.
Another girl mentioned how therapeutic it was to work with flowers, and I agreed with her, but what also felt so good was to be completely focused on a single (and fun!) task; there was no where else I should be, no nagging chore at the back of my mind. I gave myself up completely to the joy of deciding whether a rose or ranunculus should come next along my wreath and felt wonderfully relaxed.
After completing my crown, I fastened it round my head, wrapped up the generous bunch of left-over flowers I was pressed to take home and waved goodbye to Talitha at the bus stop. I sauntered along the street to Haggerston station (getting some rather odd looks as passersby took in my flower-bedecked head), and reflected on what a happy morning I’d spent.
B R U N C H W I T H F R I E N D S
I was lucky enough to get to try out the new Gate Vegetarian Restaurant breakfast and brunch menu (of course, I opted for pancakes), which was delicious (remember my lunch there?). I took a friend along with me, and it reminded me that brunch is probably my favourite way to enjoy a meal out with friends. Lunch (at least during the working week) can feel too rushed, and supper can often be overly-lengthy affairs, leaving me tired the next day.
When brunching, though, everyone enjoys lingering over the teapot; you can take pleasure in a long conversation, but still have the satisfaction of the day spread out before you, hopefully filled with more fun plans.
N E W P J S
I’ve been in desperate need of new pjs for a while, but hadn’t found a pair I liked. I love silky, button-down pyjamas, but wouldn’t ever want a pair that is actually silk. Apart from being horrendously expensive, they’re tricky to clean (who really has time to hand wash?!). Perhaps for one’s wedding night (although, in all honesty, that’s probably the one night I wouldn’t opt for pjs…), but apart from a special occasion, I’m happy with materials I can throw in the washing machine, at least when it comes to nightwear.
I was excited, then, when I realised Ted Baker (always a favourite of mine – the florals!) was doing an affordable collection of nightwear and lingerie for Debenhams. Luckily for me, I had a £50 Debenhams voucher to use up, so I went along the other day in search of the perfect pjs. I really loved the Ted Baker selection, but unhappily they were completely sold out in my size. Just when I was resigning myself to the ultra baggy look, I noticed this pair by Savannah Miller for Debenhams. They had my size in stock, and I pounced, completely in love with the Liberty-esque paisley print.
It’s amazing how a very simple addition to your wardrobe can add a lot of joy, but I really am quite swept away by these pjs and am already planning on packing them for pretty much every upcoming trip I’ve got planned.
G O O D R E A D S
I’ve had the pleasure of reading a lot of good books lately. Pachinko (out at the end of the month in the UK) is wonderful, and I’m currently immersed in Hannah Kent’s The Good People.
I’ve also rediscovered my taste for magazines. I hadn’t read any for a while, but now I’m thoroughly enjoying The Simple Things, Harper’s Bazaar (the recent issues have just been excellent; I no longer buy Vogue etc, but Harper’s is always a treat, as there’s always interesting and thought-provoking content, alongside sumptuous images) and Lionheart Magazine.
S U S S E X M O D E R N I S M
I popped along to Two Temple Place last week to see the Sussex Modernism exhibition, and I absolutely loved it! I’m already planning a return trip at the start of March, as there was a lot to take in, and as entry is free, I’m determined to make the most of access to this beautiful building, which is only open a few months a year.
Sussex Modernism is definitely a must see for lovers of all things Bloomsbury Group and Charleston. Highlights for me were: a beautifully painted chest by Duncan Grant; Vanessa Bell’s self-portrait; gorgeous editions of some of Virginia Woolf’s books; paintings by Peggy Angus, as well as a letter written by her to John Piper, and an Eric Ravilious print of Furlongs.
The exhibition is on until April 23rd, so if you’re in London, do go! Also, I can recommend the cafe, where I enjoyed a very nice light lunch and attractive surroundings. Oh, and don’t miss the adorable pug sign at the building’s entrance! I think it’s my favourite in London.
What’s been making you slow down and smile more lately? I’d love to know!
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