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T&T 29 | Creativity Chat with Sara Tasker (Me & Orla)

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This Tuesday, I’m chatting with the Queen of Instagram, Sara Tasker, otherwise known as @me_and_orla. I’ve been a fan of Sara’s gorgeous photography and engaging personality from before I started blogging, so it was a real joy to have her on the show for a fabulous talk about creativity and social media.

Sara discussed the start of her Instagram journey, when she gained 10s of 1000s of followers in a few months, and how she kept true to herself and her creative vision, despite the pressure of a huge following. I was also keen to ask Sara for her tips on avoiding the ‘comparison trap’ on social media and how to regain a sense of community within Instagram, after the changes introduced by the new algorithm. As always, Sara had so much wisdom to share, so this is great episode to listen to if you’ve been struggling with some of the changes to Instagram lately.

We also chatted about the nature of creativity, how Sara came to start her own podcast, Hashtag Authentic, her experience starting her first novel and so much more.

Listen for an insightful discussion on creativity and social media. 

Note: Above images courtesy Sara Tasker.

The Curated Month | May, 2017

The Curated Month | May, 2017

Having a bit of time away from the blog as my shoulder healed was initially extremely frustrating, but then I began to appreciate it as an opportunity to regroup and think through fresh ideas. I realised I was finding the Book Club too stressful; even reading the books was difficult for me, as I’m having to read so much more in preparation for Tea & Tattle interviews now. So although there will no longer be an official monthly read, I will be introducing more book-related content into this site, but in a more manageable way.

I also thought about my ‘Fun Things To See and Do’ lists that I’ve been writing every month for about the last year and a half, and I realised that I love these lists, but I wanted to breathe fresh life into them. I hope you enjoy this new format!

The Curated Month | May, 2017

May’s Theme Word: Travel

As the long days of summer are just around the corner, with many people looking forward to holidaying away from home, I thought it appropriate to dedicate this month to travel. You can expect some travel tips from Sophie and me coming on Tea & Tattle podcast soon, guest posts about places outside of London, and of course lots of content from me, including posts about my recent holiday in Penzance, Cornwall. I’d also love to hear from you – do you like to travel? What emotions or images does the word conjure up for you?

A List for May:

stop and smell the lilacs
learn a new yoga pose
create a space that’s all your own
sketch a bunch of Lily of the Valley
read a poem
plant some seeds
bake scones

The Curated Month | May, 2017

The Londoners’ List:

1/ The Affordable Art Fair is in Hampstead 11th-14th May.
2/ I loved seeing the Vanessa Bell exhibition at Dulwich Picture Gallery, and the Bloomsbury Art & Design show at the Courtauld is next on my list.
3/ The Garden Museum is re-opening after extensive renovations on 22nd May, and looks a must-visit.
4/ Set in the former Midland Bank building in the heart of the City, The Ned is London’s hottest new hotel, and it’s worth getting a drink in the bar to experience the beautiful setting.
5/ The Northern Ballet returns to Sadler’s Wells with Casanova, 9th-13th May.
6/ Pick up a plant – or even book a workshop – at one of London’s fabulous florists, like Grace & Thorn.

The Book

New Boy by Tracy Chevalier is released on 11th May, and I can’t wait to get my hands on it! New Boy is a reworking of Shakespeare’s Othello, set in a 1970s suburban schoolyard in Washington, and sounds completely gripping. I’m a big fan of Chevalier’s writing so I’ve been eagerly awaiting her latest novel.

The Podcast

My dad recently sent a family email round recommending The New Yorker Poetry Podcast as his favourite podcast – (quickly followed by an email correcting it to his second favourite – glad he remembered Tea & Tattle!) – and I can see why. This is a brilliant podcast for those who appreciate poetry, the English language, or just great conversation. I found the episode on the process of fact-checking poems particularly fascinating.

The Creative

The Curated Month | May, 2017Image via @andotheradventuresco

I’m battling post-algorithm instagram fatigue by finding people who really inspire me on this platform and celebrating them.  I absolutely love the beautiful embroidery that @andotheradventuresco features on her account, which is encouraging me to get my needle and thread out again.

The Song

I recently discovered the French artist Jain, and have had her album, Zanaka, on repeat for a while. Makeba is one of my favourite songs from the album, and its joyous, upbeat tune is perfect for the warmer months.

The Great Buy

I adore these Paris postcards illustrated by Emily Sutton. They’re perfect to send to fellow Paris lovers!

The Wild Card

Philippe Michel Cremant du Jura is terrific value and offers a fabulous change from prosecco. A bottle of this fizz would be the perfect picnic accompaniment (or just to celebrate the start of the weekend…).

What’s on your list for May? 

T&T 26 | Reflecting on Our Goals for 2017

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It’s super to have Sophie back on the podcast today, especially as we’re celebrating the 6 month anniversary of Tea & Tattle! We’re having a general catch-up on the podcast today, and Sophie explains why she’s been so busy lately. We’re also reflecting on our theme words that we set at the start of the year in Episode 10. Sophie chose ‘openness’ as a word to frame what she wanted to achieve in 2017, and I chose ‘consistency.’ As we said in January, we want to regularly check in with each other (and with our listeners!) to see how we’re getting on with our goals, and so this episode is devoted to reflecting on our progress through the year so far.

Listen to hear our reflections on the year so far and how much we’ve managed to keep to our theme words of ‘consistency’ and ‘openness.’ 

What are your reflections on the year so far? Are you happy with your progress in 2017? Is there anything that’s working particularly well for you in helping you to attain goals, or is there something you need to change?

Happy Listening!

T&T 21 | Murder Most Unladylike

 

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In today’s episode, I’m joined by the lovely Robin Stevens, to discuss her wonderful children’s book series, Murder Most Unladylike, which are hugely popular with children and adults alike. A delightful mix of Agatha Christie and Enid Blyton, the Murder Most Unladylike books are set in the 1930s and tell the story of two boarding school girls, Daisy Wells and Hazel Wong, who discover they have a remarkable knack for solving crime. The girls set up their own secret Detective Society and prove how capable they are at outwitting the adults around them, triumphantly solving case after baffling case.

Born in California, before moving to Oxford and attending Cheltenham Ladies’ College, Robin shares how her own background and school life influence her writing. We talk about Robin’s favourite Golden Age mystery writers, such as Agatha Christie and Josephine Tey, as well as her research process in recreating 1930s England and – for her next book – Hong Kong. I also questioned Robin on her most recently published book, Cream Buns and Crime, which has only just been released, and is a charming series companion to the Murder Most Unladylike novels. Robin explains how Cream Buns and Crime gave her an opportunity to broaden the reader’s experience of Daisy and Hazel’s world, and why ‘Bun Break’ is so important to her characters (lots of tasty sounding recipes feature in the new book!).

I was curious, too, to learn more about how the first Murder Most Unladylike book began as a NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) project, when Robin finished the first draft within a month to successfully complete the challenge. It was interesting to hear Robin’s perspective on the benefits of taking part in NaNoWriMo, as well as how she managed to subsequently procure an agent and publisher for her book.

Listen for a fascinating discussion on Robin Stevens’ writing process and inspiration. 

P.S. Apologies for the lack of blog posts lately; I’ve been struggling with a neck injury and have only been able to keep up with the podcast. Thankfully, I’m beginning to feel better, so regular posting will be resuming shortly. Thanks for your patience!

T&T 20 | Marie Kondo and Dominique Loreau

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This Tuesday, Sophie and I are in conversation about the best-selling books, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo and L’Art de la Simplicité : How to Live More With Less  by Dominique Loreau. Both books have had phenomenal success and developed a cult following, and Sophie and I were curious to read them to see how much we agreed with their principles and to what extent we found them applicable to our own lives.

In this episode, we’re having a frank discussion about our initial reactions to both books, what we found useful and thought-provoking about Kondo and Loreau’s ideas, and also what we did not enjoy.  We round up our chat with some actionable steps we’re already putting into practice from both books.

Marie Kondo and Dominique Loreau | Tea & Tattle Podcast

As always, too, Sophie and I are sharing what happy moments have made us ‘Jump for Joy’ lately, as well as some of the comments, useful suggestions and feedback from you, our listeners. Don’t miss my book suggestion in this week’s ‘Culture Corner’ section, as well as Sophie’s tip for if you happen to find yourself in the King’s Cross (London) area.

Listen to hear our thoughts on the internationally best-selling books, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo and L’Art de la Simplicité: How to Live More With Less by Dominique Loreau.

T&T 18 | The Art of Home-Making

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In this episode, Sophie and I are turning our thoughts to our homes. With Spring in the air, we’re sharing our best tips for making your home a pleasant, comfortable place, even when struggling with the limitations of a small space. As we’ve both lived in flats for the majority of our adult lives, and in a variety of situations – sharing with university friends, boyfriends, family, as well as living alone – we feel that by now we’ve got fairly adept at creating a home wherever we are.

Explaining how William Morris’ philosophy on possessions influences us both, and how we like to consider our senses when creating a comfortable space, Sophie and I chat about the kinds of environments that suit us best and that we find most conducive to happiness and creativity.

Listen to hear our tips on making an inviting and comfortable home in a small space.

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Happy Listening!

Miranda xxx

Fun Things To See And Do | March 2017

So far, March has definitely lived up to its reputation of coming in like a lion, with plenty of wind and rain to make one truly tired of winter. There have been the odd sunny days, though, which have served as a welcome reminder that spring is very much just around the corner. Here’s my monthly list of fun things to see and do to make the most of this month.

1/ Offer your support to other women. March 8th is International Women’s Day, which serves as a timely reminder to seek out ways to encourage the women around you. This challenge can be simple: say an encouraging word to a female colleague, or support a girl friend in a new project. If you’re feeling inspired to do more, however, then here are some excellent suggestions for how to get involved in mentoring young women.

2/ Add an item of clothing you’ve been needing for a while to your wardrobe. I bought a new pair of trousers over the weekend, and I only wish I’d got them sooner! I’d been wanting a pair of easy pull-on, cotton trousers for a while, and now I’ve found just the right pair I’m over-the-moon.

3/ Go on a blossom hunt. Clouds of pink and white blossom are starting to appear all over London. Hampstead, Notting Hill, Chelsea and Primrose Hill are especially good places to search out the prettiest trees. Snap photos as you stroll around, or bring along a pencil and sketch-pad to draw these beautiful early signs of spring.

4/ Spoil your Mum (in the UK, Mother’s Day is on the 26th March). Here are some ideas: have a Victorian afternoon tea at the V&A, go for a facial at Elemis in Debenhams, or enjoy a glass of champagne somewhere decadent, like the Connaught bar.

5/ There are some fantastic sounding shows at the Royal Academy right now. I want to see both the Russian Art and America After The Fall exhibitions.

6/ Focus on the things that make you feel revitalised and refreshed: use crisp, fresh perfumes; eat grapefruit for breakfast; splash your face with cold water; take a long walk and end a tiring day with a long, relaxing bath.

7/ Send some special snail mail. Naomi Bulger’s amazing instagram account and blog is full of the most beautiful post inspiration. I love her illustrated envelopes and incredible creativity. If you sign up to her newsletter, you get free monthly downloads of templates so you can start decorating your own envelopes.

8/ Watch Dancer with a friend. I was completely mesmerised when I saw this video featuring Sergei Polunin dancing to Hozier’s Take Me to Church, and now I can’t wait to see this documentary exploring the life of the ‘bad boy of ballet’ (talk about heartthrob material!).

9/ Have a go at writing a short story, using a particular theme, like ‘food’ or ‘home’ to spark your imagination.

10/ Pay attention to the people who take the most of your time. Are they always the people who make you feel your best? Set yourself a challenge this month to pour your time and energy only into those relationships that make you feel energised, supported and loved. You may see fewer people, but when you put effort into nourishing your very best relationships, you’re guaranteed to end the month happier.

A few more things…

Going to Rye. I’m off on the train tomorrow and just can’t wait! I’m staying at the Gallivant Hotel, which sounds blissful. I used to visit The Hamptons regularly when I lived on Long Island as a child, and this definitely sounds the next best thing. I’m channeling my inner Revenge vibe.

Taking part in the #femmemarch book challenge through my @mirandasbookcase account, as well as the Ruth read-a-long hosted by @thenobbylife.

Attending this talk in celebration of International Women’s Day at Foyles.

Celebrating a friend’s birthday on Friday.

Recording a lot of fun interviews for Tea & Tattle – can’t wait to publish the ones I have coming up!

Reading Longbourn in preparation for the next Miranda’s Notebook Book Club discussion!

How about you? What’s on your list for fun things to do this month? I’d love to hear what you’ve got planned!

 

The Simple Things | February (List #01)

The Simple Things | Flower Crown Headpiece

I felt it was time for another round-up chat, sharing some of the simple pleasures I’ve been enjoying lately. I thought it would be fun to turn this into a semi-regular feature (akin to my book round up posts, which I had originally planned to be monthly, but I think more realistically will be every other month or so). I’ve been thinking more and more lately about ways to slow down the rhythm of my days; to appreciate each moment and take joy in small things.

M A K I N G     A     F L O R A L     C R O W N

The Simple Things | Flower Crown Headpiece

My lovely friend Talitha invited me along to a floral wreath making workshop with the Flower Appreciation Society, as part of an airbnb ‘London experience.’ We all gathered for tea at the Hackney City Farm cafe before choosing some pretty blooms at Columbia Road Flower Market, and then jumped in a taxi to the flower studio to learn how to make our crowns.

I can’t imagine it will come as a shock to anyone that I’m rather partial to flowers. They’re a simple pleasure that never fail to make me happy, and I love having flowers in the home, as well as seeing them growing wild in the countryside or planted in parks and the grounds of beautiful stately homes.

Much as I appreciate everything floral, however, I hadn’t ever done a floristry workshop before, so I was very excited to learn how to make a headpiece. A florist once told me that flowers are often used in therapy, to help patients feeling anxious or depressed, but I was still surprised by the calming influence I felt as I bent my head over my crown. Everyone was very concentrated on the task at hand: carefully selecting each flower head to use and delicately taping the stems to wire. We munched chocolate and ginger biscuits, sipped tea and chatted sporadically, delighting in the abundance of gorgeous bouquets before us.

Another girl mentioned how therapeutic it was to work with flowers, and I agreed with her, but what also felt so good was to be completely focused on a single (and fun!) task; there was no where else I should be, no nagging chore at the back of my mind. I gave myself up completely to the joy of deciding whether a rose or ranunculus should come next along my wreath and felt wonderfully relaxed.

After completing my crown, I fastened it round my head, wrapped up the generous bunch of left-over flowers I was pressed to take home and waved goodbye to Talitha at the bus stop. I sauntered along the street to Haggerston station (getting some rather odd looks as passersby took in my flower-bedecked head), and reflected on what a happy morning I’d spent.

B R U N C H     W I T H     F R I E N D S

The Simple Things | Pancakes at The Gate Vegetarian Restaurant, London

I was lucky enough to get to try out the new Gate Vegetarian Restaurant breakfast and brunch menu (of course, I opted for pancakes), which was delicious (remember my lunch there?). I took a friend along with me, and it reminded me that brunch is probably my favourite way to enjoy a meal out with friends. Lunch (at least during the working week) can feel too rushed, and supper can often be overly-lengthy affairs, leaving me tired the next day.

When brunching, though, everyone enjoys lingering over the teapot; you can take pleasure in a long conversation, but still have the satisfaction of the day spread out before you, hopefully filled with more fun plans.

N E W     P J S

The Simple Things | New Pjs

I’ve been in desperate need of new pjs for a while, but hadn’t found a pair I liked. I love silky, button-down pyjamas, but wouldn’t ever want a pair that is actually silk. Apart from being horrendously expensive, they’re tricky to clean (who really has time to hand wash?!). Perhaps for one’s wedding night (although, in all honesty, that’s probably the one night I wouldn’t opt for pjs…), but apart from a special occasion, I’m happy with materials I can throw in the washing machine, at least when it comes to nightwear.

I was excited, then, when I realised Ted Baker (always a favourite of mine – the florals!) was doing an affordable collection of nightwear and lingerie for Debenhams. Luckily for me, I had a £50 Debenhams voucher to use up, so I went along the other day in search of the perfect pjs. I really loved the Ted Baker selection, but unhappily they were completely sold out in my size. Just when I was resigning myself to the ultra baggy look, I noticed this pair by Savannah Miller for Debenhams. They had my size in stock, and I pounced, completely in love with the Liberty-esque paisley print.

It’s amazing how a very simple addition to your wardrobe can add a lot of joy, but I really am quite swept away by these pjs and am already planning on packing them for pretty much every upcoming trip I’ve got planned.

G O O D     R E A D S

The Simple Things | The Good People by Hannah Kent | Pretty Books | Books Photography | Books Flat Lay

I’ve had the pleasure of reading a lot of good books lately. Pachinko (out at the end of the month in the UK) is wonderful, and I’m currently immersed in Hannah Kent’s The Good People.

I’ve also rediscovered my taste for magazines. I hadn’t read any for a while, but now I’m thoroughly enjoying The Simple Things, Harper’s Bazaar (the recent issues have just been excellent; I no longer buy Vogue etc, but Harper’s is always a treat, as there’s always interesting and thought-provoking content, alongside sumptuous images) and Lionheart Magazine.

S U S S E X     M O D E R N I S M

The Simple Things | Two Temple Place | Sussex Modernism

I popped along to Two Temple Place last week to see the Sussex Modernism exhibition, and I absolutely loved it! I’m already planning a return trip at the start of March, as there was a lot to take in, and as entry is free, I’m determined to make the most of access to this beautiful building, which is only open a few months a year.

Sussex Modernism is definitely a must see for lovers of all things Bloomsbury Group and Charleston. Highlights for me were: a beautifully painted chest by Duncan Grant; Vanessa Bell’s self-portrait; gorgeous editions of some of Virginia Woolf’s books; paintings by Peggy Angus, as well as a letter written by her to John Piper, and an Eric Ravilious print of Furlongs.

The exhibition is on until April 23rd, so if you’re in London, do go! Also, I can recommend the cafe, where I enjoyed a very nice light lunch and attractive surroundings. Oh, and don’t miss the adorable pug sign at the building’s entrance! I think it’s my favourite in London.

What’s been making you slow down and smile more lately? I’d love to know!

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Fun Things to See and Do | February 2017

Fun Things to See and Do February 2017

The shortest month of the year, February always seems to come and go in the blink of an eye. Before the month quite escapes you, however, here are some fun things to see and do:

1/ Head to Tate Britain to see the David Hockney exhibition, which is getting some fantastic reviews. I’m going later in the month with the lovely Alice Stevenson (remember my interview with her?).

2/ Celebrate your girlfriends. Valentine, what Valentine? Apparently it’s all about Galentine’s Day now, and – although you don’t need a specific day to celebrate the fabulous women in your life – it’s definitely worth taking some time this February to acknowledge how much your gal pals mean to you.

3/ Do some match-making. Now, Emma Wodehouse has taught me the dangers of meddling too much in the affairs of others, but a well-meant introduction can never be a bad thing, right?! Personally, I’d consider even Emma’s interventions preferable to the horrors of anything app + dating related.

4/ Pick up a copy of Hannah Kent’s new novel, The Good People, which has just been released in the UK. I loved Hannah’s first book, Burial Rites, and I’m going to her talk about The Good People at the Piccadilly Waterstones tonight. I can’t wait!

5/ Keep on eye open for the first shoots of Spring as you take walks, and fill your home with flowers. Hyacinths are currently filling my living-room with scent, and I have a few sprigs of blossom in a vase that I love to sit and admire when I have my tea in the morning.

6/ Bake your own bread. London is going through a real cold spell at the moment, and there’s nothing quite as comforting as the smell and taste of freshly baked bread to enjoy with some soup for lunch.

7/ See a show. I’m a big fan of Gilbert & Sullivan, and the Pirates of Penzance at the London Coliseum sounds hugely entertaining.

8/ Go out for brunch and order pancakes (note: Shrove Tuesday is 28th February). I’m tempted to try the pancake stack at LLS, a new(ish) cafe in Hampstead (although as they’re gluten free and vegan, I’m not sure they’re naughty enough for a pre-Lent binge…).

9/ Start a journal chronicling a favourite activity: knitting projects accomplished, books you’ve read, exercise goals, recipes cooked, wines bought & tasted etc. It’s a fun way to keep track of your year and honour a favourite pastime. I started a books only instagram account (@mirandasbookcase) to keep track of my recent reads, and I’m loving it!

10/ Invest in some attractive nightwear to make cosy evenings at home that much more pleasurable. I love the Ted Baker for Debenhams collection.

++ A Few More Things ++

Organising the first Miranda’s Notebook Book Club meet-up!! (This definitely tops the list!).

Going on an ‘air bnb experience’ event with the lovely Talitha. Flower crowns are involved, so I’m excited!

Indulging my love for all things Bloomsbury by attending the Vanessa Bell and Sussex Modernism exhibitions.

Trying out the new breakfast menu at The Gate.

Celebrating a good friend’s achievement at The Bloomsbury Club Bar (I’ve been with friends once already this month and am happy to be going back; it’s got a great atmosphere!).

Going to the cinema. I really want to see Hidden Figures and Jackie.

How about you? What’s on your list to enjoy this February?

P.S. Check out my suggestions from last year. Also, a great savoury crepe recipe (definitely naughty enough).

T&T 14 | The 5 Love Languages

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Today on Tea & Tattle Podcast, Sophie and I delve into the topic of The 5 Love Languages, a bestselling book by Gary Chapman. This book is a fascinating read for anyone who wants to make the most of both their romantic and platonic relationships, and Sophie and I had a lot of fun deciding which ‘love language’ we speak (we think we’re actually bilingual!). The 5 Love Languages are: words of affirmation; quality time; gifts; physical touch and acts of service. Listen to the episode to find out which resonated particularly with us, and how learning more about the 5 Love Languages shed light on our relationships, past and present!

Happy Listening!

P.S. Sophie is visiting me in London this afternoon, and we’ll try to post a few instagram stories. If you’d like to see what we’re up to, follow along on instagram: Sophie (@sophie_perdita) and Miranda (@mirandasnotebook)